Code of Conduct

A Shared Standard for Respect, Safety, and Enjoyment

Our events are designed to be fun, relaxed, and deeply respectful. The structure you’ll see here isn’t about restriction—it’s about creating an environment where everyone can actually enjoy themselves without pressure, uncertainty, or crossed lines.

Clear expectations are what make it possible for people to relax, let go, and have a genuinely good experience.

This Code of Conduct applies to all attendees, regardless of gender, experience level, or role.

Our Core Values

Everything we do is built around a few simple principles:

  • Consent is ongoing, enthusiastic, and respected at all times
  • Women’s comfort and agency come first
  • Respect is non-negotiable
  • Communication is encouraged, not awkward
  • Structure creates freedom, not limitation

If you align with these values, you’ll feel at home here.

Consent: The Foundation of Every Experience

Consent is not a one-time question. It’s an ongoing conversation.

At our events:

  • Consent must be explicit, not assumed
  • Anyone may say yes, no, slow down, or stop at any time
  • A change of mind never requires an explanation
  • Non-verbal cues matter – if someone seems uncertain, you pause and check in

If consent isn’t clear, the answer is no.

This standard exists to protect everyone—and it’s what allows trust and ease to develop naturally.

Women’s Comfort Comes First

Our events are intentionally designed around the female experience.

This means:

  • Women set the pace
  • Women choose how much or how little they participate
  • Women are never pressured to perform, entertain, or please

Men are expected to:

  • Be attentive and responsive
  • Follow direction gracefully
  • Prioritize awareness over entitlement

Confidence here comes from restraint, presence, and respect, not persistence.

Respectful Behavior Is the Minimum Standard

All attendees are expected to:

  • Treat others as people, not props or fantasies
  • Speak respectfully before, during, and after the event
  • Honor personal space and boundaries
  • Accept redirection calmly and without argument

The following are not acceptable:

  • Ignoring or pushing past boundaries
  • Guilt, pressure, or persuasion after a “no”
  • Aggressive, dismissive, or demeaning language
  • Acting entitled to access, attention, or intimacy

Disrespectful behavior ends participation immediately.

Communication Is Encouraged

We believe good communication makes everything better.

You are welcome—and encouraged—to:

  • Ask respectful questions
  • Check in with partners
  • Express needs or limits
  • Speak up if something feels off

Silence is not expected.
Discomfort should never be swallowed to “keep things smooth.”

Our events are structured so that speaking up is normal and supported.

Hygiene, Presentation, and Personal Care

Part of maintaining a high-quality experience is showing up prepared.

All attendees are expected to:

  • Arrive clean, well-groomed, and freshly showered
  • Maintain personal hygiene throughout the event
  • Dress appropriately for the setting and tone

Good hygiene is about consideration, not judgment.

Substance Use and Awareness

Clear minds create safer, more enjoyable experiences.

  • Excessive intoxication is not permitted
  • Anyone who appears impaired may be asked to step away
  • Consent cannot be given or received when someone is not fully present

Moderation protects everyone’s safety and comfort.

Privacy and Discretion

What happens at our events stays at our events.

  • No photos or recordings without explicit permission
  • No sharing names, stories, or identifying details
  • No discussing others’ participation outside the space

Discretion is a cornerstone of trust.

The Role of Structure and Hosts

Our events are hosted intentionally.

This means:

  • There is always someone accountable for the environment
  • Hosts may check in, redirect, or intervene if needed
  • Guidance is given to maintain flow, safety, and comfort

Host direction is not a suggestion—it’s part of how we keep the space relaxed and enjoyable for everyone.

Aftercare and Closing

Experiences don’t end the moment the event concludes.

We value:

  • Thoughtful closure
  • Emotional check-ins when appropriate
  • Respectful departures

Aftercare—emotional, social, or simply quiet decompression—is an important part of the experience, especially for women exploring something new.

Accountability and Enforcement

These standards are enforced consistently.

Violations of this Code of Conduct may result in:

  • Immediate removal from the event
  • Loss of future attendance privileges
  • Permanent exclusion from the community

There are no warnings for serious breaches of consent or respect.

This protects the integrity of the space—and the people in it.

Why These Rules Make It More Fun

Rules don’t kill chemistry.
Uncertainty does.

When everyone knows:

  • What’s expected
  • What’s allowed
  • What’s protected

People relax.
Tension drops.
Connection becomes possible.

This structure is what allows curiosity, pleasure, and genuine enjoyment to unfold—without pressure or fear.

A Final Note

Our community is built for adults who value:

  • Emotional intelligence
  • Mutual respect
  • Thoughtful exploration

If that resonates with you, you’ll likely find these guidelines reassuring—not restrictive.

Fun thrives where trust exists.
Trust thrives where standards are clear.

We’re glad you’re here! 😊