Welcome to Your Personal Experience
Welcome, gorgeous! This is your moment to explore, heal, and indulge in the attention you deserve. We’ve crafted these rules to help you feel amazing, safe, and in control—no shame, no judgment. Whether you’re feeling a bit nervous, a bit unsure, or even a little “broken,” that’s totally okay. This entire experience is about joy, healing, and owning your moment—every part of you is welcome here.
Preparing Your Body
Because You Deserve to Shine
Cleanliness Basics
- Warm Shower: Take a refreshing shower before arriving. Feel free to use your favorite soap—think of it as a little “reset” just for you.
- Gentle Soap Down Below: If you’re washing your private areas, stick to unscented soap. It’s kinder to delicate skin.
- Fresh Breath: Give your teeth a good brush and maybe a quick mouthwash rinse. Small steps like this can give you a huge confidence boost.
Grooming Choices (Especially If You Want Oral)
- Totally Your Call: If you’d like oral, you might feel more comfortable trimming or shaving. But if that’s not your thing, that’s cool too. The point is to do whatever makes you feel your best.
- How-To Tips: Wash first, take it slow, and maybe use a mirror to avoid cuts. If you’re brand-new to it, you can start with a simple trim. No pressure—seriously!
For Every Body
- Curves, Scars, Stretch Marks? All good! We don’t care about “perfection”; we care about you feeling clean, cared for, and confident.
- Dress for You: If you’re shy or plus-sized, wear something comfy or sexy—whatever you love. There’s zero need to fit anyone else’s idea of “hot.” You’re already hot.
Health & Safety
Your Peace of Mind Matters
STI Testing
- Both Parties Tested: We ask for proof of STI testing within 48 hours before the session—for your partner and for you, if possible.
- What to Check: Common tests include chlamydia, gonorrhea, and HIV. You can visit a local clinic—most offer discreet, quick testing options.
Protection
- Condoms & Dental Dams: These are always on hand. If you choose to use them, fantastic. If not, you wont regret it! Just say the word. We’re good either way.
- Easy Communication: A simple “Yes, please” or “Not this time” is all it takes. No awkwardness, no pressure.
Sobriety
- No Booze or Drugs: We want you 100% alert so you can enjoy every moment—and voice any concern if something’s not right. Staying clear-headed keeps you in the driver’s seat.
Boundaries & Consent
You’re the Boss
Setting Limits
- Write Them Down: If there’s a place you don’t like touched or a certain activity that’s off-limits, note it beforehand. Example: “No tummy touches—I’m still healing there.”
- Safe Words or Phrases: We recommend having a word or phrase like “Stop” or “Hold up” to pause the session whenever you need.
During the Session
- Speak Up: Need a break? Feeling overwhelmed? Say “Pause.” We’ll immediately stop and check in with you.
- Triggers: Tell us if loud noises, certain words, or anything else might trigger you. We’ll steer clear.
Respecting Your Partner
- Mutual Respect: The partner also has boundaries. We ask that you respect theirs, just like they’ll respect yours. Communication is key.
What to Expect
Step-by-Step Comfort
Arrival
- Discreet Entry: You’ll have a quiet check-in, often just a friendly face greeting you at the door.
- Comfy Clothes: Bring a robe or something cozy if you’re feeling shy—you can slip into it until you’re ready.
The Session
- Slow Start: We begin with conversation, letting you settle in. You’ll only move forward when you’re fully comfortable.
- Ambiance: Dim lights, soft music—if you want something specific (candles, your favorite playlist), let us know!
Aftercare
- Wind Down: We have water, blankets, and a moment of calm ready for you. If you prefer to head out quickly, that’s cool, too. Aftercare is all about your comfort.
Breaking Rules
What Happens
We don’t like being strict, but for everyone’s safety and happiness:
- Skipping Hygiene, Consent, or Sobriety? The session ends immediately. We’re serious about keeping this a safe and respectful space.
- Post-Session Issues: If you have concerns afterward, please reach out to us. We’re here to help, but remember that mutual respect is non-negotiable.
Final Pep Talk
You’ve Got This
Forget labels like “curvy,” “shy,” or “unconventional.” You’re the star here. Scars, worries, or self-doubt—bring it all, because we see you, and you are enough. When you follow these guidelines, you give yourself the freedom to relax, explore, and really own your experience. Take things at your own pace, and know we’ve got you every step of the way.
Remember: This is your chance to claim something special—your power, your pleasure, your moment of true intimacy. We’re here to make sure it’s everything you want it to be. Enjoy, have fun, and let’s make this your victory.
